Method to identify meaningful relationships between users within a gathering planning system

A computer implemented method executable by computer-executable instructions stored on a non-transitory computer readable medium to cause one or more computing devices to perform a plurality of operations, comprising:

• receiving predetermined or self-reporting hashtag descriptors from user about self, interests and aspirations;
• receiving, through application programming interface, hashtags that are trending in other social networks may be displayed to feed the hashtag descriptors store and facilitate for the formation of micro-groups within the community or gatherings appealing to the users interested in said hashtags;
• allowing users to add to own profile hashtag descriptors found in other user profiles;
• assigning hashtag descriptors to personality traits, proclivity to type of activities and aspirations, wherein type of activities may be scored determined based on likelihood of physical hazard and severity, wherein aspirations may be categorized by type of aspiration.

A system comprising:

• a computer implemented method for gathering planning, said method is executable by computer-executable instructions stored in server system, comprising:
• creating a gathering invite which contains details of gathering and a series of hashtag descriptors;
• selecting groups determined based on the affinity and aversion response by host-user;
• defining the minimum and maximum number of prospective participant-users and invite close date;
• requesting the sharing of expense of the gathering through 3rd party providers.
• The system of claim 4, further comprising computer-executable instructions stored in a non-transitory computer-readable medium having encoded thereon instructions to cause one or more computing devices to perform a plurality of operations comprising:
• determining the visibility of gatherings user can view based on other users' affinity and aversion;
• allowing only users in the host-user selected group to join using prospective participant-user's computing device via a network;
• notifying, at participant-user's computing device, an automated cancellation notice of gathering if gathering invite did not reach the defined minimum number of participant-users by invite close date;
• removing visibility of gatherings once the gathering has reached the defined maximum number of participant-users if such number is reached prior to invite close date.