A damper for damping a motion, said damper comprised of a nonelastomeric outer tubular member having an inner axial center bore, a nonelastomeric inner member, said nonelastomeric inner member rotationally received in said outer member inner axial center bore with said nonelastomeric inner member rotatable within said outer member, a nonelastomeric member bonding cylindrical surface segment and a nonelastomeric member frictional interface surface segment, and an elastomer encompassing said nonelastomeric inner member, said elastomer having a bonding surface segment and a elastomer surface, said elastomer bonding surface segment bonded to said nonelastomeric member bonding surface segment and said elastomer surface including a plurality of groove segments with grease dams, and a grease, said grease disposed in said groove segments and between said elastomer surface and said nonelastomeric member frictional interface surface segment with said elastomer surface engaging said nonelastomeric member frictional interface surface segment and inhibiting a rotation of said nonelastomeric inner member relative to said outer member with said grease dams inhibiting a migration of said grease.