Phone number identification systems and methods

A system for connecting with users comprising:

• a database including records related to one or more second users, each of the second users being associated with an identifier, data, and a plurality of contact lists, wherein the data includes a plurality of data subsets, each data subset associated with each one of the plurality of contact lists;
• a phone including a controller in communication with the database;
• and
• a memory in communication with the controller, the memory including program instructions executable by the controller that, when executed by the controller, cause the controller to:
• provide a user interface that receives a phone call request from a first user, wherein the phone call request includes the identifier associated with a one of the second users and does not include the phone number associated with the one of the second users, and wherein the first user is on one of the plurality of contact lists of the one of the second users;
• in response to receiving the phone call request, initiate the phone call over a telephone network from the phone to the phone number associated with the one of the second users, and
• receive one data subset of the plurality of data subsets associated with the contact list of the one of the second users that includes the first user.