System and method for discouraging communications considered undesirable by recipients

A method of regulating electronic communications, said method comprising:

• a) receiving a communication from a sender for a designated recipient;
• b) comparing sender identity indicia attached to said communication with stored sender identity indicia in a database under the control of said recipient;
• c) presenting said communication to said recipient for acceptance or rejection, when said sender identity indicia is determined to be acceptable in step b);
• d) sending a return message to said sender indicating that a bond must be posted when said sender identity indicia is not determined to be acceptable in step b), and that money associated with said bond shall be forfeited if said communication is presented to said recipient and said recipient rejects said communication;
• e) dissolving said bond when said recipient accepts said communication;
• f) causing the money associated with said bond to be forfeited when said recipient rejects said communication;
• disabling steps d) through f) when the sender is a subscriber to a system administering said method;
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• banning a subscriber from said system if said subscriber sends more than a predetermined number of unsolicited communications to other subscribers.

A method of regulating electronic communications, said method comprising:

• a) receiving a communication from a sender for a designated recipient;
• b) comparing sender identity indicia attached to said communication with stored sender identity indicia in a database under the control of said recipient;
• c) presenting said communication to said recipient for acceptance or rejection, when said sender identity indicia are determined to be acceptable in step b);
• d) sending a return message to said sender indicating that a bond must be posted when said sender identity indicia are not determined to be acceptable in step b), and that money associated with said bond shall be forfeited if said communication is presented to said recipient and said recipient rejects said communication;
• e) dissolving said bond when said recipient accepts said communication;
• f) causing the money associated with said bond to be forfeited when said recipient rejects said communication;
• g) enabling a recipient to declare himself/herself willing to receive commercial communications from senders approved by the system administering said method;
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• h) disabling steps d) through f) for approved senders.

A system for regulating electronic communications, said system comprising:

• at least a communication server adapted to receive a communication from a sender for a designated recipient;
• a sender identity indicia database adapted to store sender identity indicia under the direction of the recipient corresponding to acceptable or unacceptable sender identities;
• a comparator adapted to compare sender identity indicia attached to said communication with stored sender identity indicia database;
• said communication server being further adapted to present said communication to said recipient for acceptance or rejection, when said sender identity indicia are determined to be acceptable according to the output and interpretation of said comparator;
• said communication server being further adapted to send a return message to said sender indicating that a bond must be posted when said sender identity indicia are not determined to be acceptable, and that money associated with said bond shall be forfeited if said communication is presented to said recipient and said recipient rejects said communication;
• a bond establisher adapted to enable communication senders to establish bonds;
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• a counter adapted to, for each sender encountered by said system, counting the number of communications by the sender which are rejected by a recipient;
• wherein said system is adapted to dissolve said bond when said recipient accepts said communication, said system is adapted to cause the money associated with said bond to be forfeited when said recipient rejects said communication, and said system is further adapted to forego forfeiting the money associated with said bond when the number of rejected communications by system users has not exceeded a predetermined number.

A system for regulating electronic communications, said system comprising:

• at least a communication server adapted to receive a communication from a sender for a designated recipient;
• a sender identity indicia database adapted to store sender identity indicia under the direction of the recipient corresponding to acceptable or unacceptable sender identities;
• a comparator adapted to compare sender identity indicia attached to said communication with stored sender identity indicia database;
• said communication server being further adapted to present said communication to said recipient for acceptance or rejection, when said sender identity indicia are determined to be acceptable according to the output and interpretation of said comparator;
• said communication server being further adapted to send a return message to said sender indicating that a bond must be posted when said sender identity indicia are not determined to be acceptable, and that money associated with said bond shall be forfeited if said communication is presented to said recipient and said recipient rejects said communication;
• a bond establisher adapted to enable communication senders to establish bonds;
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• a system administrator adapted to ban a subscriber from said system if said subscriber sends more than a predetermined number of unsolicited communications to other subscribers;
• wherein said system is adapted to dissolve said bond when said recipient accepts said communication, and said system is adapted to cause the money associated with said bond to be forfeited when said recipient rejects said communication, and wherein said communication server is adapted to forego sending said return message, and said system is further adapted to forego forfeiting the money associated with said bond when the sender is a subscriber to a system administering said method.

A system for regulating electronic communications, said system comprising:

• at least a communication server adapted to receive a communication from a sender for a designated recipient;
• a sender identity indicia database adapted to store sender identity indicia under the direction of the recipient corresponding to acceptable or unacceptable sender identities;
• a comparator adapted to compare sender identity indicia attached to said communication with stored sender identity indicia database;
• said communication server being further adapted to present said communication to said recipient for acceptance or rejection, when said sender identity indicia are determined to be acceptable according to the output and interpretation of said comparator;
• said communication server being further adapted to send a return message to said sender indicating that a bond must be posted when said sender identity indicia are not determined to be acceptable, and that money associated with said bond shall be forfeited if said communication is presented to said recipient and said recipient rejects said communication;
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• a bond establisher adapted to enable communication senders to establish bonds;
• wherein said system is adapted to dissolve said bond when said recipient accepts said communication, and said system is adapted to cause the money associated with said bond to be forfeited when said recipient rejects said communication;
• and
• wherein said system is further adapted to enable a recipient to declare himself/herself willing to receive commercial communications from senders approved by the system, said communication server is adapted to forego sending said return message, and said system is further adapted to forego forfeiting the money associated with said bond for approved senders.