Connector and connector pair

A connector, comprising:

• a housing;
• and
• a conductive member,
• wherein
• the conductive member includes a main body part, a board connecting part positioned at a first end of the main body part, and a contact point part positioned at a second end of the main body part,
• the main body part, board connecting part, and contact point part each include exposed surfaces exposed outside of the housing,
• the main body part, board connecting part, and contact point part each include a metal base material and first to third layers formed on this metal base material, and
• the first layer is a nickel or nickel alloy plating layer, the second layer is a platinum group metal or platinum group metal alloy plating layer, the third layer is a gold or gold alloy plating layer, the thickness of the second layer is 2 to 200 [nm], and the thickness of the third layer is 0.2 to 15 [nm].