A personal social network for family and friends of a user of a computer-implemented reminder application, the personal social network enabling a sharing of gift and social engagement likes, dislikes, hobbies, invitations, profiles and events within the personal social network upon receipt of permission data received at a user smart device computer-implemented application from a user selected family member or friend responsive to receipt by the user of a permission to receive such data from the user selected family member or friend, the personal social network further providing individual and group messaging within the personal social network, the personal social network comprising:
- a smart mobile client device having a processor and a communications interface to a cloud-based search manager server, and
- a cloud-based search manager server having a processor and a communications interface to a plurality of search engines for searching for data related to one of gifts and social engagements,
- the communications interface of the smart mobile client device further having access to at least one database, each database having access to one of the plurality of search engines.