System and method for discouraging communications considered undesirable by recipients

A system for regulating electronic communications, said system comprising:

• at least a communication server adapted to receive a communication from a sender for a designated recipient;
• a sender identity indicia database adapted to store sender identity indicia under the direction of the recipient corresponding to acceptable or unacceptable sender identities;
• a comparator adapted to compare sender identity indicia attached to said communication with stored sender identity indicia database;
• said communication server being further adapted to present said communication to said recipient for acceptance or rejection, when said sender identity indicia is determined to be acceptable according to the output and interpretation of said comparator;
• said communication server being further adapted to send a return message to said sender indicating that a bond must be posted when said sender identity indicia is not determined to be acceptable, and that money associated with said bond shall be forfeited if said communication is presented to said recipient and said recipient rejects said communication;
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• a bond establisher adapted to enable communication senders to establish bonds;
• wherein said system is adapted to dissolve said bond when said recipient accepts said communication, and said system is adapted to cause the money associated with said bond to be forfeited when said recipient rejects said communication.