A hearing assistive system comprising a hearing assistive device and a remote-control unit for controlling the hearing assistive device by sending a control signal with instructions as an acoustic signal, the remote-control unit having a processor, an input transducer, an output transducer, and a memory, the processor is adapted for controlling a calibration process during which:
- the remote-control unit is adapted for outputting tones applied by the control signal via the output transducer,
- the hearing assistive device is adapted for receiving the tones and evaluating tone level of the received tones,
- the processor is adapted for:
- adjusting relative volumes of the tones applied by the control signal in dependence of the evaluation, and
- storing the adjusted relative volumes of the tones for use when sending a control signal with instructions as acoustic signals.